Mental Strength Tip #20 – Absolute Confidence for Personal Success

Achieving peak personal performance and personal success begins with a mental strength mindset and empowering beliefs.  Personal success starts in the mind and finishes with peak performance…taking massive action. 

This is one in a series of mental strength tips to help start your week of strong so that you can reach you peak performance, personal success by enhancing your personal development.

I take one subject and run though a brief overview of it, then ask some very direct questions.  The intention of these ‘sessions’ is for you to write the questions in a success journal reflect on them and answer them.

This series of posts is for YOU!  If I’m not able to coach you personally one-on-one, I want you to at least get the benefit of “virtual” coaching.

Objective of this Mental Strength Tip:

To help you understand the power of acquiring and developing the mental strength attribute of absolute confidence in yourself.  To achieve peak personal performance one must develop the belief that absolute self-confidence is a mindset created by thinking, felling and programming and not dependent on an external event or circumstance.   When you develop absolute rock-solid confidence your external circumstances WILL change. 

Let’s Get Started:

I’m wondering if you’ve ever noticed the difference between the language that an average personal uses and the language of a mentally strong individual. Thoughts and the language it produces has an immediate and critical impact on ones self-confidence.  I’m sure you’ll start to notice now won’t you?

Questions to Uncover Beliefs about Mental Strength Thinking:

• On a scale of 1 to 9, 9 being the highest, how self-confident are you?
• Do you believe absolute confidence is something you’re born with or something you learn?
• Who are the three most self-confident people you know and what do you feel created their confidence?

Unsupportive Beliefs about Self-Confidence

• Confidence is something you’re born with.  You either have it or you don’t.
• Personal Success is the only thing that creates self-confidence.
• Absolute self-confidence is arrogance, and people won’t like me if they think I’m arrogant.

Mental Strength Beliefs about Self-Confidence

• Absolute self-confidence is self initiated and self created.
• Self-confidence has nothing to do with whether you’re ‘winning’ or ‘loosing’. It’s resides on the inside…it’s a mindset.
• Self-confidence is a decision you make about how YOU see yourself.

Outrageous Questions:

• Would your three closest friends say you have absolute self-confidence?
• Do your results reflect absolute self-confidence?
• Dows your thinking, actions and habits really reflect absolute self-confidence?

Reflective Questions:

• On a scale of 1 to 9, 9 being the highest, how would you rate your self-confidence?
• What would it take for you to develop greater self-confidence?
• What has contributed the most to the self-confidence you have now?

Mental Strength Coaching:

I encourage you to begin to monitor the way you use self-talk and what you say to others.  Self talk is the single most powerful proactive reprogramming technique.  Listen to mental strength programming CD’s and audios in the area of your life you need the biggest assistance.  If it’s about money take a look at:

https://www.warriormindcoach.com/blog/recommends/T-Harv-Eker.html

If it’s about weight loss here’s a great program:

https://www.warriormindcoach.com/blog/blog/mental-strength-for-weight-loss-and-fitness/ 

Another tool to use is visualization.  See yourself exuding absolute self-confidence in a situation that is currently creating some uncertainty and anxiety. As your visualization program becomes a habit, your subconscious mind will begin to see the internal representation as ‘real.’  Visualization combined with positive self-talk will serve as the foundation for developing a mental strength belief system.

Final Thought

The development of self-confidence is critical for the achievement of personal success and peak personal performance.  It’s both and active and passive process.  The active part is done through self talk, visualization and other mental strength techniques.

The passive part occurs when you begin to experience uncommon success.  Most people wait for personal success, but as your mental strength coach, my job is to help you understand that to get the results you’ve never gotten you’re going to have to become someone you’ve never been.

If you’d like to get started on developing radical mental strength for personal development, personal empowerment or personal success request your Introductory Consultation.

Also, “Develop the Mental Strength of a Warrior” is a fantastic e-book that helps you develop awareness, consciousness and mental strength with a step-by-step plan.

OK…now it’s your turn!  Let me know about your thoughts on this subject in the comments below.