Mental Strength Tip #64 – Communication and Personal Success
Welcome back to another Mental Strength Tip!
Achieving personal success and reaching your personal goals begins with a mental strength mindset of empowering beliefs.
Reaching your personal goals and personal success starts in your mind…and finishes with taking inspired and massive action.
This is one in a series of virtual success coaching and mental strength tips to help kick-start your week. It is intended to enthuse and inspire you to take action so that you can reach your personal goals and personal success.
I take one mental strength tips and run though a brief overview of it, then ask some very direct success coaching questions. The intention of this virtual success coaching session is for you to write and answer these questions in your success journal and then reflect on them to gain insight on yourself, your dreams and what’s holding you back.
These series of posts are for YOU! If I’m not able to success coach you personally one-on-one over the phone or in The 2nd Passage, I want you to at least get the benefit of a virtual mental strength and success coaching session.
Enjoy!
Objective of this Mental Strength Tip:
To help you understand that you communication skills play a major role in achieving your personal goals and personal success. This virtual mental strength and success coaching session is to encourage you to actively improve your communication skills on a daily basis.
Let’s Get Started:
It used to be that the only major communication skill was verbal. Now with the wide-spread use of the Internet there are so many other ways to communicate. Twitter, Facebook, e-mail, blogs and now people are able to read our body language more.
Think about the role communication skills have played in your life and have helped or hurt you in achieving your personal success.
The mental strength skill of excellence in communication is absolutely necessary in reaching your personal goals and personal success. .
Questions to Uncover Beliefs about Mental Strength Thinking:
- How much impact have your communication skills had on the success of your most important business and personal relationships?
- Do you believe great communications skills are important in reaching your personal goals and personal success?
- What is the most powerful form of communication?
Unsupportive Beliefs about Communication Skills
- Communication means making people understand what you’re saying
- Communication is talking
- Successful communication is about getting people to do what you want them to do
Mental Strength Beliefs about Communication Skills
- You ability to communicate is critical to your personal success
- Successful communication means mutual understanding
- Successful communication is about connecting with people
Outrageous Questions:
- Do your results indicate you are a good communicator?
- What are you doing to improve your communication skills?
- Do you believe it’s possible to get better results through improved communication skills?
Reflective Questions:
- What makes a good or bad communicator?
- Who are the best communicators you know and what makes them so good?
- On a scale of 1-9, 9 being best, how good of a communicator are you?
Mental Strength Coaching:
Very few people deny the importance of compunction skills. My job as your virtual mental strength and success coach is to encourage you to begin an ongoing process of communication skills improvement.
This could include reading books, watching DVD’s, taking a class, participating in a seminar and even get “live” coaching.
I highly recommend looking into NLP training and joining Toastmaster International.
I want you to really think about how your ability to communicate is affecting your life and how by improving your communication skills you can directly influence your personal success.
Final Thought
The response you get IS the meaning of your communication. If you’re not getting the response your want YOU are reasonable to change the communication. The “sender” is completely responsible for how the message is received.
Improving your communication skill is essential in the attainment of your personal goals and personal success.
If you’d like to get busy on understanding and changing the most important communication skill, the one with yourself, pick up you copy of “Develop the Mental Strength of a Warrior” today HERE. This is a fantastic e-book that helps you take control of your thoughts, develop success awareness and helps you tap into the powers of your unconsciousness mind to create the mental strength to succeed at anything!
