Meditation And Mindfulness – What Are They Good For?
When we think about a warrior mind most of probably don’t think of meditation or mindfulness. However, when we take a closure look at mindfulness is we can see how almost every warrior culture included some form of mindfulness into its training and practice.
Mindfulness Meditation
Mindfulness is the skill of being deliberately attentive to one’s experience as it unfolds—without the superimposition of our usual commentary and conceptualizing. The capacity to be mindful provides a wholesome way to attend to our experiences and helps us overcome the unskillful habits of mind that cause us to suffer needlessly.
The foundational technique for cultivating mindfulness is the practice of meditation. Meditation is a form of physical and mental exercise that serves to strengthen the natural ability to bring moment-by-moment awareness to our lives. Since mindfulness is the skill of opening ourselves to reality without judgment, it is important that we approach the practice of meditation in this spirit, relinquishing preconceptions and expectations about the discipline.
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It is also essential to provide a spiritual and physical context conducive to meditation. Using the Five Precepts of Buddhism, consider the interconnections of ethical behavior with the development of mindfulness and the shaping of personal character.
Effective Postures for Sitting Meditation
Beginning the actual practice of meditation starts with focusing attention on the breath and observing when the mind strays. By noticing when attention has wandered away from its focal point and then gently returning it to the breath, we gradually strengthen our capacities for concentration and awareness.
Practicing mindfulness over time reveals and develops the qualities of wisdom and compassion, the twin virtues of the discipline. Wisdom means seeing clearly into the fundamental nature of reality. Through meditative practice, we can deeply recognize the eternal arising and passing away of all phenomena and see the unsatisfactory quality of ordinary human experience that derives from the illusion of the self as an entity separate from the rest of reality.
Practice Is The Key To Mindfulness
Mindfulness techniques are skills that anyone can develop and apply to the simplest aspects of living: breathing, sensing, feeling, eating, walking, speaking, and even driving. When one has covered the fundamental aspects of mindfulness practice, you can work on more challenging things: cultivating compassion for ourselves and others; developing a life of generosity; accepting our mortality; and coping with physical pain, grief, and anger.
Difficulties often encountered in meditation and there are several ways of working with these impediments to strengthen concentration and to counter frustration and discouragement.
Compassion—the desire to alleviate suffering—is an essential component of our nature as human beings. Mindfulness practices such as ‘metta meditation’ allow us to cultivate compassion and develop empathy for others, deeply recognizing their inner experience. Dana (sharing with others) reveals the life-giving effects of generosity on both the giver and the receiver and helps us understand our attachment to “things.”
We can also consider the ways in which both inner experience and outward action are influenced by our use of language, rejecting on four Buddhist principles of skillful communication.
Finding compassion for ourselves is more challenging for many of us, particularly the perfectionists among us; mindfulness techniques can help us embrace and accept both imperfection and perfectionism as an opening to freedom and deeper humanity.
The skills of mindfulness also offer powerful means to work with physical discomfort—through understanding the crucial distinction between pain and suffering—as it directly affects our perceptions.
Reflecting on the universality of loss, we can take a deeper look at the notion of impermanence. By learning to embrace life’s transience and to center our focus in the present moment, we are able to experience loss and even grief without fear or aversion.
In the mindfulness tradition, the practice of reflecting on death is considered to be both liberating and essential to living a full and satisfying life. We can examine the ways in which our culture conditions us to avoid and deny death, and we can learn meditations that deepen both the awareness of life’s transience and our ability to live freely.
Finally, we can reflect on the capacity of mindfulness practice to profoundly alter our perceptions of ourselves, the world, and our place in it.